Be prepared to share your fear and emotions, and fast to acknowledge your mistakes
13) DON’T BE AN IDIOT…. And don’t be scared to be one either. You shall make errors so will she. Do not make too large of errors, and study from the people you will do make. You’re not allowed to be perfect, simply make an effort to never be too stupid.
14) GIVE HER SPACE… the lady is really so great at offering and offering, and often she will have to be reminded to make time to nurture by herself. Often she’s going to have to travel from your own branches to get and discover just just what feeds her heart, and she will come back with new songs to sing… if you give her that space. (okay, getting a tad too poetic right right here, however you have the point. Inform her to devote some time for herself, ESPECIALLY once you’ve children. She requires that space to restore to get re-centered.)
15) BE VULNERABLE… you don’t need to have all of it together. .
16) BE FULLY TRANSPARENT. If you’d like to have trust you really must be prepared to share EVERYTHING… specially those ideas you don’t like to share. It requires courage to love, and fully element of that courage is permitting her to love your darkness plus your light. DROP THE MASK… like you need to wear a mask around her, and show up perfect all the time, you will never experience the full dimension of what love can be if you feel.
17) NEVER STOP GROWING TOGETHER… The stagnant pond breeds malaria, the flowing flow is often fresh and cool.